Fred D. Mayes, Sr. 1915-2012

This past weekend my grandfather passed away. He got a little better early last week, but then got sick again. He'd been getting dialysis for almost 10 years and it basically stopped working. They stopped the treatments and he died early Saturday.

I'm really happy that I was able to see him and that even though he was not able to interact with us, he knew we were there and that we flew out East to visit him. We can't afford to go back for the funeral, but I'll be writing a reflection that will be read at the service.

Craig wrote a nice note on Facebook that I will repost here for those of you that are not on there to see it:

"Today's grandparents range in age from 30 to 110 years old. Today at 97 years old we lost Grandpa Fred Mayes (Carisa's Grandpa). He fully embraced his role as Grandpa and Great-Grandpa to over 20 grandchildren. He'll be missed but will always be an inspiration to us and permanently have his spot in our family tree."

Happy Birthday Zach!

Zach turns one years old today! We're doing cake this weekend, when Grandma Deb and come and celebrate with us. Not a big party of course, but he will definitely be able to get all messy and maybe eat some cake (it will probably be mostly a sensory experience, lol). I will be uploading some pics of our Philly trip hopefully tomorrow or Friday, sorry for the delay.

Here is the birthday boy!

To Philly and back!

We just got back from our Philly trip last night and it was overall an enjoyable trip. The boys did fine on the plane rides there and back. But we didn't fully anticipate how lack of naps could impact things after getting there. I think Gabe napped 2 out of the five days we were there, so his mood was not the best toward the end of the day. And while Zach kept mostly on his normal schedule, he was still kind of tired. But as everyone with kids knows, such is life when they are under 5, lol.

Unfortunately, the kids weren't able to interact with my grandpa because he got sick with an infection several days before we got there. He is in ICU, so Friday we went to the hospital and the nurses let them be outside the room to look at him. But gramps was not aware that we were there. Sunday, we went back and he was a bit more alert and knew I was there. But the nurses didn't want the kids in there again and risk getting sick. So that was definitely a bummer, but I'm glad Gabe was able to at least get a look at his great-grandpa.

I'll post some pics within the next day or so.